1/5/2017 12 Comments Ivf...OMG!!!Hey all!
I am so excited to announce that the process of IVF has officially begun! For a month now I have been taking birth control and hormone pills to increase my progesterone. This morning, I had surgery to eliminate all possible negative outcomes of ivf, as an extra precaution. My doctor removed some scar tissue, widened my uterus to give it a more inhabitable shape for implantation, and he removed my right Fallopian tube to avoid any more ectopic surgeries! I'm so glad, too because that has been life threatening for me and it's the most common cause of pregnancy related deaths. Fortunately, this is a pretty routine procedure so I only need a few days rest, unlike more invasive surgeries, and then I'm back on my feet! My follow up is on Monday, and I am just so excited! It's a big investment but worth every penny, knowing that my uterus is healthy and my egg reserve is good! And I can never have another ectopic pregnancy again! It was a little scary, though! When they wheeled me into the O.R, I could feel my heart pounding! They put me on the table, strapped my arm down and then put the huge overhead light over me. I realized.. this is happening! My life is about to change! And for the better 😊 After that, I completely passed out, of course. They put a tube down my throat and opened me up. At this point, it's such a relief because it's over and my doc gave us the thumbs up! If there was anything at all to find, he would have found it by now. Please follow me on this journey! Not many people talk about their experience with this but I'm hoping it will shed light on new possibilities for couples trying to conceive and it's also inspiration to see just how far along science has come! Did you know I can pick the gender? Not sure what I want to do regarding that but please comment your thoughts below! I only want one child, because I have 4 amazing "step" (hate that word!) children but it is compelling to think about... what to do? What would you do! Thanks for reading and wish me luck! Ill keep you all updated soon!
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Stephanie Rodriguez
1/5/2017 06:26:20 pm
I am a step-mom, too....but I prefer calling my step-son my bonus son...he was my bonus in getting his dad! :)
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Kristina Vidal
1/5/2017 06:33:02 pm
We haven't met but I used to work with your husband. I'm so excited for you two! I also had to go through IVF in order to get pregnant with my now 2 year old daughter. I completely understand what an emotional journey you are on! I'll be praying for you guys to hopefully soon be pregnant. 😊
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Jen
1/5/2017 06:55:19 pm
Hi. I stumbled upon your Facebook post through a friend that must know you as well. But of course it caught my eye because after 3+ years of trying (several drugs, IUIs, injections and early miscarriages) we also went through IVF and were blessed with beautiful twin girls as a result. We had two eggs implanted-but we didn't have much hope at that point that either would take let alone both!!!! But so many friends I knew shortly after-had gone through ivf as well with success! And yes a couple also with twins!! I wish you much luck :-)
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Holly Kalisek
1/5/2017 08:33:57 pm
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Hi Taylor!!!
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Taylor
1/6/2017 08:27:45 am
Hey Lucy!
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Joanna
1/6/2017 01:23:17 pm
Taylor,
Rebecca
1/6/2017 05:07:54 am
wishing you and joey the best of luck, love, and blessings as you begin this adventure. <3
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Shamaine
1/6/2017 07:07:57 am
Girls always want a girl, men always want a boy. After all this struggle the surprise at the end keeps the excitement going. Save something for mother nature. 😘cant wait to be aunt Shay Shay.....hugs and prayers.
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Joe
1/6/2017 08:31:43 am
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Christy Fennel
1/6/2017 11:42:28 pm
I am so excited for you and your sweet family! After my 9 miscarriages and one stillborn I completely understand the fears and hopes of having a child. You are such a great mom to your kids already and I know you and your family will be blessed with a beautiful, healthy baby! I will definitely follow your blog to see how things are going! I'm so glad you are doing this because I have been seriously considering IVF or a surrogate. I'm so happy for you Taylor!
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Taylor
1/8/2017 06:54:58 am
Christy, all I can say is thank you. I had no idea you have been through so much. That just makes my heart break for you! I'm amazed how strong you are and also how sane you are after experiencing such trauma and pain. With my 2 year ectopics and 1 miscarriage in 2016, I nearly lost my marbles! I'm so proud of you for keeping it together and being so strong! Thank you for commenting and following this blog. ? it means a lot to me. You were always my favorite co-worker!
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